It may seem like a leap to go from pouring through videos on some remote website, to putting down a list of your desires for a proffesional dom. To me it could be a logical progression in this curiosity. You're at a point where thoughts and video stimuli are...
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Regular articles on my industry, from within the industry
Gay Master Amsterdam
So you want a gay master (or 2, or more...), here in the capital of talented and above board sex workers. You've seen the porn, you've heard the hype, and you want to down and consensually mauled. It's fair to say that you're going to get more than you bargained for...
Heavy Groan
A way t look at it is to think about the kinds of noises you make during a usual day. A burp, laugh, comment, maybe a protest after stubbing your te on a radiator... From this perspective its easy to recognise that the involuntary, deep belly groan that rolls out of...
Who’s Decision Is It?
What is that brought you here? Not just to this post but to the groanandmoan, or to the site that brought you here? It may be a part of your anatomy.. it seems obvious but its important to me. It can be a little challenging to make contact with a Dominus, when you're...
Bottomless Whore
Sometimes there is just a need to be pounded in your limp flopped body. It's not always possible or desireable to be slutty, sometimes you just need to be a whore. No restraints are evening needed, you're just there and taking it over and over again. Intermittant...
Anticipation, Excitement and Fear
It's no surprise that during the time leading to a session you are getting intensely bombarded with a range of desires, concerns and trepidation. Don't expect me to relieve all of these in messages... that's not what you're paying me for ;). The first thing to do to...
Working With a Beginner
Firstly, sluttiness, femininity, and playfulness are very welcome in a session with me. How far, in terms of makeup, wigs, lingerie and so on, you want to go is up to you, but if you're up for something new then thats going to set the basis for an interesting time....
Ritual and Lifestyle Kink
There are clearly attracitons to either entering a situation that is intentionally foreign, where you shed your day to day demeanor and step into an arena of possibilities. Or, to enter into a seamless continuation of the excitement for a kink that brought you here in...
Coercion, Direction, Domination
Depending on the nature of the person I'm getting out of their leading role, different types of leading will be needed. Coersion - This is a bit like a carrot on a stick and whip behind at the same time. It's value comes in when a sub is clear on what they want and...
Body First, Then I’ll Work You
As I've written about before, learning how important connecting and activating horniness in the ass is, was one of the biggest game changers. The most prominent day to day change I notice is its impact on how reactive I am. You've got to bring your body to the bdsm...
F me, Crush Me, Pound Me
Sometimes that need to have your insides crushed and pressed through your cheeky back door gets too much to just wait around, and pretend it's not there. Firstly I would say, congratulations, you're one of those fortunate people who have their 'horny hole' wired up...
Gay, Straight, Bi
This is for first timers and beginners. Experienced kinksters, this article isn't for you. It is one of the most common dilemmas that I find men in and one I've certainly related to. The challenge of not knowing whether you're gay, bi or straight is broadly as...
Orgasms
Heavy Groan
A way t look at it is to think about the kinds of noises you make during a usual day. A burp, laugh, comment, maybe a protest after stubbing your te on a radiator... From this perspective its easy to recognise that the involuntary, deep belly groan that rolls out of...
Bottomless Whore
Sometimes there is just a need to be pounded in your limp flopped body. It's not always possible or desireable to be slutty, sometimes you just need to be a whore. No restraints are evening needed, you're just there and taking it over and over again. Intermittant...
F me, Crush Me, Pound Me
Sometimes that need to have your insides crushed and pressed through your cheeky back door gets too much to just wait around, and pretend it's not there. Firstly I would say, congratulations, you're one of those fortunate people who have their 'horny hole' wired up...
Tell Me About Yourself
I would like to hear if you’re ready to be on the other end of one of my dates.
– Tell me a bit about your experience, and the kind of slut you are.
– Which dates and times are you’re options
Know that at this time, my costs €150 per hour and our first meeting will be 2-3 hours, this is not a discussion point
My apologies if you have tried to contact me here before, it turns out the form wasn’t delivering the messages to me. Please send me a new email.
If you don’t send a comprehensive email covering the points above, then I will simply remove the email. This descriptive email is an important part of the beginning of our session.
Send an email to chrissu@groanandmoan.com
Or Whatsapp to +31 6 42605828 (begin our message conversation with your comprehensive description. Greetings will not be replied to.)